If overwhelming with heavy debt is already a fact to you, then the only solution is to get rid of it. Debt won't go away if you keep ignore it, instead it will become more and more with the adding of interest from month to month, and your options to handle it will become less and less until you need to face the ultimate and the worst option, bankruptcy filing. Don't let yourself reaches this bad situation; you need to react proactively to find debt solutions that fit your debt situation and get rid of your debt as soon as possible.
Your first proactive action is to find help. Nobody will provide help if you don't let others know that you are facing a debt problem. If you already stressful with your heavy debt, you won't be able to have fresh mind to think out a solution to solve the debt problem alone. You should discuss with your family members and your friends to see what other potential solutions to resolve the problem. Their proposals might not be the best for you, but at least you have some direction to go for.
Another better option to find help is to approach professional help. Many people do not know that they may have better option to resolve their debt issue just because they did not explore to the available options which will enable them to choose the one that best fit their needs. There are many debt relief solutions available to help people to resolve their debt problem, but not all will suit your situation and help you get out of debt effectively. You should proactively approach debt counseling services. Most of these services will give free consultation and help you to understand your debt seriousness and what are the potential solutions that you could implement to resolve it.
When you approach a debt counseling service, a counselor will be assigned to handle your case. He can't help you if he does not understand your current financial situation, so be prepared to honestly tell him your actual situation and let him know all your debt issues and your financial affordability at this moment. Then, the counselor will propose a solution that best fit your financial situation. The solution may involve a debt management plan which is customized to fit your financial at the time. The debt management plan may involve some management fee. It's your choice whether you want to enroll into the debt management plan or you choose other alternative options.
The bottom line is you have taken an initiative and act proactively to find help to resolve your debt issue. It's our own responsibility to get a solution for our debt problem. Nobody will be able to help us if we don't help ourselves.