You are so stunned by your boyfriend telling you he needs some space that you cannot say a word. That might be the best thing that can happen. It will keep you from begging him to change his mind and being hurt more. Instead of crying and begging, you should use these effective tips to bring him back fast.

There is nothing you could say to stop him at that time. Your ex boyfriend has carefully planned his words and actions, to catch you by surprise. That makes it easy for him to get away with the least of arguments. But, now it will be your turn and you can make him wish he had never asked for space.

If you would not have been so stunned, your emotions might have made you say things that you would be sorry you said. You might not realize this, but by remaining silent you have gotten off to the right start. In fact your ex boyfriend was expecting you to tell him he was making a mistake and now he will feel a little let down.

To make your ex boyfriend regret he asked for space, you cannot let him know how hurt you are. Instead, you need to make him think you accept the breakup and you are moving on. Ignore your ex and find other interests. If you have gained a few pounds, you might want to join an exercise club. If you want to make yourself feel needed and useful, do volunteer work.

Get back the life you had before you met your ex boyfriend and show him you are not going to lose your pride and dignity. When he becomes aware that you are not going to lower yourself and beg him to love you again, he will feel rejected. You might think it strange that guy who dumped you could feel rejected, but men are that way.

Go out with your friends and let your ex hear of the fun you are having. This will remind him of the good times he had with you. He will remember the way you laughed and the sweetness of your voice. Soon, he will realize that he misses you. This is when he will become aware that he has not heard from you since the breakup. In fact you didn't say a word at the time.

Your ex boyfriend will remember how you just let him walk away and then went on with your life. He will wish he had never asked for space and put himself in this position. Your ex will want to contact you but he is afraid of being rejected. This is when you can bring him back fast. Send him an email and tell him you hope he is alright and if he ever wants to talk, he has your number. That will let you start the process of making up without either of you losing your pride.