Have you ever wondered how to improve a relationship? Do you ever worry about scaring your guy away? Are you unsure about how to express your love to your man without freaking him out? While some men may find being loved dramatically to be quite nice, most men do not like overly affectionate women. You need to be able to find a good balance. To do this, follow these 3 tips:
#1 Keep the level of affection in check
Showing your man that you love him in little ways does a whole lot of good in a relationship. Giving the occasional massage or cooking something for him are good ways to show great affection. Gently touching his arm or hand can also do wonders.
If you burden your man with too much affection he will begin to feel smothered. Most guys are not interested in an extreme amount of affection so don't go overboard. Keep the affection at a low level, especially in front of others. Let him lead in public displays of affection.
#2 Show him love in quiet ways
Actions speak louder than words, so use action to show him you love him. These actions will show him that you care.
Never be the first one to say "I love you" to a man. Most women know that this scares men away but they do it anyway. Take your time and let him say it first.
#3 Let your man take control
Be sure to continue doing things like going out together in order to make great memories and build strong feelings for each other. In doing this, let him set the pace and decide how quickly the relationship will progress. If you take too much control it will scare him. He will feel pressured and run.
If you follow these three tips you'll be able to build a working relationship without scaring off your special guy. Make sure you let him take control, show him love in quiet ways, and keep your affection for him under control.
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