You could be in a forgiving mood after the breakup with your ex and might be ready to get back with him/her.
But what if your ex has an unforgiving attitude and even tries to avoid you? Instead of losing hope, lose some of your morals and engage in some sneaky-but-honest moves to win your ex back even when they are trying to avoid you.
If your ex avoids visiting place that you both used to frequent earlier then this calls for some spying.
If your ex is still in touch with common friends then try to get some information about the exact time and location of his/her whereabouts and casually land up there.
Do not try to talk to your ex but instead only let him/her observe your presence.
Within a short time, your ex will realize that absence does indeed make the heart grow fonder.
If your ex refuses to pick up his/her mobile after looking at your number then have a common friend call up.
Once your ex is on the line then let your friend pass you the phone and you can start talking to your ex.
Remember to remain calm when you talk and rehearse all the points that you plan to bring up before you make that call.
An apology is the best way to calm down your vanishing ex.
Write a letter explaining the reasons for the breakup and apologize for mistakes from your side.
An email can also be sent, although a letter indicates that you have put in genuine effort and seems warm as compared to a cold and digital email.
Your ex is sure to respond to your overtures with a return letter or email.
You should also prove to your ex that you are willing to change for the better.
If your breakup has occurred due to your attitude or actions then make visible efforts to change for the better.
Once your ex starts noticing the changes then his/her anger is sure to melt away and get replaced by a new level of respect and love.
Even if your method is sneaky, your ex is sure to appreciate that you have genuinely tried to win him/her back into your life.