It just recently came to my attention that some women don't really understand the value of being a goddess.
In fact they can't even take it in, because they fear that a "Goddess" is someone who is spoiled, selfish and self-absorbed.
Additionally, there are men out there who fear that if they contribute to a woman's desires, she might get out of hand and become this selfish princess that will clean out his wallet! Au contraire! Let's clear this up, shall we? First, all the love experts will tell you, the best relationships are ones where the woman is happy and fully engaged with the inner light of her goddess.
Why else do you think there are so many books, products and courses devoted to teaching women how to get in touch with the goddess within? But now I can see that if you didn't know that a goddess is kind, thoughtful, benevolent, reciprocal and fully aware how to contribute to a man's happiness (while also recognizing how essential her happiness is to his happiness), you might be afraid that men will reject you if you start putting forward your wishes and requests.
Providing a man with a roadmap to success (with you) doesn't make you a demanding, assertive woman.
It means that you are being helpful to your man! Sharing what brings you happiness so he doesn't have to guess, or worse, guess wrong and then shut down, is a breath of fresh air to men! A goddess would never be one-sided and spoiled to the detriment of the relationship.
That is not a goddess! That is a princess! Hopefully this insight will open a new door for you, because all the happiest of relationships include a woman who understands her role as goddess.
Goddess = a woman who recognizes a man's need to be a part of her happiness.
So what can you do to embrace your goddess? * Start by appreciating that if you want a relationship where you and your man love and adore each other, you must master the traits of a true goddess! Once you embrace this reality, you will be giving off a vibe to men that speaks to their unconscious.
That is, if the guy is not a boob or a Neanderthal.
So the good news is that you won't be attracting those men! You're welcome! * Next, learn what a goddess is! Get some training.
Not the ridiculous type of training that has you acting unnatural.
The kind that speaks to you and inspires something wonderful in your own transformation.
* Lastly, educate men.
If there is a guy you are interested in, slip into conversation (more than once), how offended you are by women who are spoiled and self-centered.
Hopefully that will bring his guard down and he will be lucky enough to enjoy the fruits of the delightful goddess that is you! To get you started, I recommend you: * Learn to ask for help or assistance.
* Allow men to contribute to you, or do things for you.
Stop being so darn independent to the point where men can't help you with your efforts in life.
* When a man asks: "What would you like to do?" have an answer! Don't fall into the bad habit of saying, "Oh whatever you want to do!" * When you go on a date, be ready with suggestions of what type of food you feel like eating and activities you are interested in.
* Stop saying no thank you just because you don't want to impose on him! There is much more I could teach you, but that would require more than a blog entry.
So this should get you started.
I know it's hard for some of you to accept this revelation.
But it's true, and one of the greatest key secrets to finding the man that is your soul mate!