Do you want to get your ex girlfriend back? In most breakups, the women are the ones who initiate the breakup.
At this point in your life, you have probably figured out that women can be irrational sometimes (kidding..
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sort of).
Women do not always say or do what is in their best interest.
Sometimes women will want to break up, but will want to get back together a few days later.
BUT, she might be embarrassed for acting irrationally, and won't come out and say that she wants you back.
Unless you make the first move, your ex will probably not take the steps necessary to getting back together.
To get your ex girlfriend back, you have to use a two step process.
The first step is to prove to her that you are still a desirable person.
The second part is to show her you are available and want to get back together.
If there was a main reason for the breakup, then you need to address that problem.
For example, when John and Lizzy first started dating, he took her to plays and concerts because she enjoyed the arts.
As they got more comfortable around each other though, the dates started becoming more revolved around his love of sports.
In fact, after Lizzy said she wanted to break up, John realized he hadn't taken her to an arts show for several months.
John realized that in order to save his relationship and get Lizzy back, he had to show her the fun things that she had been missing in the relationship.
John didn't send a ton of text messages or emails and call Lizzy constantly.
Instead, he gave her some space at first.
Then a few weeks after the breakup, he casually mentioned that he had to tickets to an arts show and asked if she wanted to go just as friends.
Not a date- but it was the first step.
Of course Lizzy jumped at the chance to do something she liked with the man she still loved.
John and Lizzy went to the show and then he took her to a nice restaurant.
Lizzy was blown away by the "new" John and subtly hinted that she wouldn't mind trying to start a new relationship.
At this point, it was up to John to make the next step.
He had got her where he wanted, but now had to think of exactly how to get back together and get the relationship rekindled.
John told Lizzy that he had fun that evening and wanted to to plan out some more fun evenings.
But he also enjoyed sports and hoped that once they got back together they could spend their time together and share their time doing what both of them liked.
Being in such a good mood, Lizzy agreed.
Together they set the new terms for the relationship and they were both happy.