If you're here wondering how to get your guy back, then it's important you read and take action on what I'm about to say.
Breaking up doesn't have to be the end of your relationship.
In fact, breaking up can be an incredible experience to improve your relationship and create a stronger bond than ever before.
At this very moment, you may be feeling desperate and depressed.
By the time you get done reading, I hope you'll feel empowered.
It's perfectly natural and OK to feel bummed, sad, and even angry.
When you're experiencing a broken heart, a lot of things don't seem to matter anymore.
However, if you want your man back, then you need to grab hold of your emotions, toss them to the curb for a while, and think about things rationally.
Start by answering some questions.
Why did the breakup occur? Who decided to end the relationship? Was the relationship in a downward spiral for a long time, or did it seem to be a spur of the moment decision because of one very specific event? You must identify the situation you're dealing with before you can fix it.
Next, take some time and really think about the relationship.
Is this the man you really want to be with? Is getting back together what you truly want? This is important because many times after a breakup, you may feel like you want him back just because you're feeling lonely.
Then, later on you realize it was a big mistake to give things another chance.
You need to make sure getting back together with your ex boyfriend is what you really want.
If you've come to the conclusion you want him back, then now is the time to show him you aren't desperate or needy.
Accept the breakup and give him space.
Don't get emotional around him and don't let him know you're sitting around desperately waiting for his phone call.
You need to find out how he truly feels about you.
The only way to do that is to make him miss you by cutting off contact for a while and doing your own thing.
It also puts the thought in his mind that you aren't just sitting around waiting for him.
Remember, some relationships simply aren't salvageable.
If he's truly done with you, then you'll need to accept it and move on.
If he's still in love with you, then he'll take action when he starts feeling like he could lose you forever.
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