It really hit me hard the first time I saw her after the break up.
I don't know if she really looked totally different or if I was just seeing her for the first time.
I could bang my head on the wall when I think of what has happened between us.
How could such good get so bad.
Now I'm figuring out how to win my ex girlfriend back.
At least there is one thing that hasn't changed.
I know she still goes to the pub on Saturday nights with her girl friends, and that they stay until the place closes, just like she always did before.
The first part of my three part strategy is to be seen, and be seen alone.
Yeah, my friends will be there too, but I'm not spending the whole night watching the game with them, I'm going to be busy figuring out how to win my ex girlfriend back.
I'm going to be ready to talk if she wants, not about what went wrong, but about what might go right if she gave me the opportunity to be with her again.
I can remember some of the places she wanted to see, things she wanted to do.
I can make time for that now and I'm going to tell her that.
People say people don't change, but they do.
That's what I'm going to tell her, and show her.
That is the second part of the three part strategy for figuring out how to win my ex girlfriend back.
My most sublime yet obvious third part of the strategy for how to get my ex girlfriend back is to send her flowers, and more flowers.
She will be so busy putting flowers in water she won't have time to think twice about what her friends may say or what people will think.
I know that stuff goes on in her head, but not this time.
I'm going to fuel change with flowers and slather on the romantic stuff so she can't ignore my good intentions.
These three parts make a winning strategy for how to get my ex girlfriend back.