Even if you are not an emotional or nervous person in your daily life, getting on a date might change things for you.
The situation of meeting somebody new as a potential partner might cause you a kind of excitement that might turn into some excesses.
Here are some of the most common excess mistakes a man can do when he is on the first date with a new partner.
The drinking excess is by far the worst nightmare of any woman when she goes out with a man for the first time.
Even if you think you can hold your liquor, it will make a very bad impression on her the fact that you are ordering five drinks in a row.
She might be thinking that this a regular habit of you and avoid you at any costs.
Another excess you should avoid is the talking excess.
If you don't say some captivating or at least interesting stuff, try to keep it to a minimum and listen to her.
No woman likes a man that talks because he likes the sound of it.
So try to refrain from deviating from the subject and talk nonsense.
In addition to that, try not to speak of things like soccer on your first date.
The opposite excess to that mentioned above is the silence.
It is not recommended to talk all the time but this does not mean you shouldn't say a word.
The girl will feel embarrassed and eventually you won't get a second date.
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