- 1). To ask a girl out over the phone you will have to wait for the right moment. Whether you've known the girl 10 minutes or several years you should understand that you can't just skip the conversation and get right to the date. You have to warm up the relationship with small talk and work your way to asking her out on a date.
- 2). The best thing you can do is find opportunity for ways to ask her out with out pressuring her. As an example you might be planning to go see a movie and you don't have anyone to go with so in the middle of your conversation talking about an upcoming movie you might invite her to go see the movie with you. She might be comfortable with the idea right away but most girls that are willing to carry on a conversation with you over the phone will likely be interested in going to the movies with you.
- 3). Don't pressure her to go on a date. Just hanging out at her place or yours is also an option. Forget the tradition dinner and a movie and just invite her over to play a board game. If she is a little timid you might invite other friends to lighten the mood. Sometimes the girl will be the one to ask you out so just be ready for whatever she might throw at you. Most girls don't always know what they want so you have to be the one to come up with ideas and entertain them. If all else fails just ask her if she would like to go out on a date. Then if she says yes you better have already thought of what that date is going to entail or she will probably change her mind.
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