A very common theme that men who want to learn attraction secrets with women seem to share is that they will stumble upon websites that seem to promote the idea that you have to memorize a script or a routine to have success picking up women. And so, they will assume that guys that are really good at picking up women all memorize lines and scripts to make it happen. That could not really be further from the truth and you will hinder your progress with women if you try and rely on a memorized routine to pick up women.

Why is this?

The number one reason is that it's just not a natural approach and most women will be able to see through this. It might work on a 19 year old, but not on a 29 year old woman that has gone through the ordeal of being approached by these kinds of pickup artist types before. It fact, for most women, this is a MAJOR turn off. And for most guys, it just doesn't feel right when they are doing it.

What should you do instead?

Instead of trying to rely on a scripted routine to attract women, you should make yourself get comfortable with approaching and interacting with women so that it all just flows naturally for you. Of course, it might not happen the first couple of times out, but in time, you will be able to talk to women and create attraction in a way that most men wished that they could.

The pickup artist image is not exactly the most desirable one.

Being successful with women is a good image to have, but to have the image that you sit around and try and come up with lines that don't sound organic is NOT. You wouldn't believe how many times I have been out with a group of beautiful women and inevitably at least one of them will get approached by one of these guys that use routines. And he usually becomes the subject of their jokes when he walks away.

What you NEED to do is to learn how to create real and natural attraction with a woman. This is what will make you seem irresistible to a woman.

When you see a guy that seems to have a natural way with attracting women, it didn't happen overnight.

It took some time, but the results, well, they speak for themselves.

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