Have you reached a point in your life where you're ready to settle down into a nice romantic relationship that will take you somewhere?  Are you having a lot more trouble getting a guy to love you than you'd imagine?  Was dating a lot easier when you were just doing it for fun, but now that you want true love it's a whole other ballgame? The difference in going out to find hot sex and going out to find true love is enormous.
  It takes a whole other strategy; a strategy few women are aware of.
  Here are a few things to keep in mind as you look for true love.
On the romantic front, friendship has gotten a bad rap.
  It seems to be that one thing women are veering away from in the hopes of getting true romance.
But love often if not always comes out of a good friendship.
  Think of the bond you want to build with him.
  You want to discover each other and under the guise of friendship, you lose that intense pressure that is often associated with the building of a romance.
Not all men are romantically inclined, but that doesn't mean they don't have the making for a great mate.
  So don't just look at the fact that he's not buying you your favorite flowers.
Look at the time you spend together, the fun you have and the laughs you share.
  You want this to be a bond built on solid respect and admiration for one another.
Show him that you can support him and you're there for him when things are going rough.
  Be the one who brightens his day and makes him feel good again.
Relationships are a delicate balance of understanding and being there for one another, and knowing when to back away and give each other space.
Having fun and keeping that healthy balance is a sure way to get you into a solid and long lasting relationship that will endure.
  So don't stress the silly little things.
  Tend to the important things and show him that you're the one who can really make his life fun and exciting.