Contrary to popular belief, all relationships go through rough patches.
It's only normal because even though we are married to someone we are all on our own path.
We go through different stages and we are often in different places emotionally.
This is why good relationships are worked at.
It takes work to understand the other person and to respect the differences.
Instead, most people try and get the other to align with their path which is really quite a selfish thing to do.
Unfortunately we tend to get caught in the emotion of these moments and fail to see it.
If your marriage has reached a point that you feel things have to change then you need to be proactive.
Problems do not solve themselves and if you just let things be your marriage will probably implode.
Here are 3 very important questions that can help you save your marriage.
1.
Do I Still Love My Husband Or Wife? If you have to be brutally honest with yourself, do you really still love this person? Are you with him or her out of love or out of obligation? It's a tough question but one that you have to confront.
If your answer is not a resounding yes then maybe its time to move on.
If that love is gone then the relationship is already dead.
2.
What Am I Willing To Change To Make Things Work? If your marriage is in trouble then you have to realize that there are certain things that you are doing wrong.
Your partner might be at the center of your blame but you need to take responsibility yourself.
You go first and fix your end first.
So, what is it for you? 3.
What Am I No Longer Willing To Settle For? Chances are that there are certain things in your relationship that is continuing to chip away at it.
You need to stop these things.
You need to make it very clear to your partner that you are no longer willing to settle for this kind of behavior and work through it.
It's amazing how some of these small poisons can kill and entire relationship.
Each one of these questions has the power to transform your relationship and while blaming your partner for your problems may seem reasonable, it will never solve your relationship problems.
The solution starts with you and it start with these 3 simple questions.