Respect is something that you can't force someone to do. It comes naturally. You can gain Respect only by your work. But what if in spite of all your deeds and sacrifices for your family your husband still don't respects you? May be the reason behind this lies in yourself

1. Learn to respect yourself: - First of all you should respect yourself then the world will respect you. God also helps those who help themselves.

2. Respect your Husband: - If you want to be respected then respect your husband first. If you don't respect him then you can't expect him to respect you.

3. Respect his feelings for his relatives: - You may have problems with your in laws but they are his parents. If you show disrespect to them you are showing disrespect to him.

4. Be independent: - Stop depending on your husband on little matters. Solve them yourself. It will make you confident and increase your self esteem.

5. Show your own point of view: - Though marriage is based on mutual understanding, you should have your own point of view in every matter. If you don't like anything say it boldly. Let him know that you have your very own perspective in every matter.

6. Make your own identity: - Try to make your own identity by doing what you like. There must something in which you know you are the best. Find it out and go on fulfilling your dreams. When the world will respect you, your husband will respect you too.

7. Be Confident: - Try to make yourself confident. For this you will need to gather as much knowledge as you can. Knowledge makes a person confident.

8. Believe in yourself: - Most of all if you want your husband to respect you, you should believe in yourself. If you don't believe in yourself no one will believe you. People don't respect someone whom they don't believe.