Many people don't realize this, but flirting can be a very good means of passing time for you and the other person.
In no time, you can just quickly be playful with anyone you want.
Basically, it is a way to meet your potential boyfriend or girlfriend in order to determine whether the two are compatible or not.
It is usually carried out in social gatherings such as at a party, club, dance or a wedding.
When it's done the right way, it easily creates a path to a new romantic relationship.
It is often considered an art with good reason.
So ladies and gentlemen, let me give you a few pointers on how to flirt.
Let's say, you're at a social gathering where dancing is taken place.
Go and shake your legs with someone who catches your eye.
Offer him or her your hand, then dance (while smiling) and share a few words and then depart.
Never (I repeat, "Never") contaminate your first fun flirting adventure by doing the following: 1) Flirting too excessively 2) Flirting too intensely 3) Asking a bunch of questions 4) Motor-Mouthing 5) Immediately asking for contact information Prison time should be given out to those who break these rules.
There is a rhythm to it.
A relationship between a skilled flirter and a non-skilled flirted never works.
Two flirts who understand the rules could very easily (and quickly) enter into a healthy relationship charged with "heavy breathing" passion.
Don't expect anything from the person you are flirting.
That's rule #5, by the way.
Any more expectation rather than that of exchange of certain smiles, hugs and words, will disappoint you for sure.
Flirting people of your same age will make your task of flirtation further easier and suitable to pick and leave at any moment you want.
If you have ever entered into a "flirt love-dance", you know that no words have exchange.
You can flirt with a person without exchanging a single word.
Yes, just use your body language and show that you like the person standing a few steps away from you.
Enjoying gazing at each other without feeling the need to utter words is also another pure pattern of flirting.
Your coworkers can also be a best people to flirt with.
Show your interest in her job, praise her sense of clothing (Hint: Pick something small that most people overlook), her style and her smile.
Going for a cup of coffee and paying for her are just natural means of flirting.
Often it happens that the one with whom you are flirting appears to be so dear and loving to you that at last you fall in love with him or her.
Under such circumstances you cannot help yourself other than falling in love with her.
Sometimes such loves proves to be true too, so you cannot predict what shape your flirtation might take and what you may end up with in the long run.
That's the beauty of it.
Flirting is not a lengthy and unending procedure.
It demands you to be quick and fast to change yourself and to change your taste as the situation demands.
Making yourself dynamic and frequent will be the most important things to make you fit for flirting.