Enchanting people have a special aura and down-to-earth attitude that captivates the rest of us long after we've set our eyes on them. Think of women such as Keira Knightley, Jada Pinkett and Anne Hathaway, or men such as Johnny Depp, Leonardo DiCaprio, and Ewan McGregor. Being enchanting is about having a personality that interests others for its unique style, a certain air of mystery but a realistic attitude about the value of living life as if others matter too.
Be calm. Keep a calm deposition when you are around people. Talk in a lucid, but clear way, like you are on a beach lounging somewhere. Have a calm tone in voice, not too loud or quiet, just right. If you don't feel calm, find space to be on your own until you have learned the art of self-calming quickly.
Wear some jewelry. Don't wear anklets, and wearing long necklaces (not too long) would be perfect. Don't overdress, just a silver ring and necklace will do.
If you are female, consider wearing pastel colors, like sea foam green, periwinkle, white and grey. It will give people the impression of "vulnerability, yet sweetness".
Another thing to consider when being an enchantress is how unique you are. There are loads of labels these days, and many people feel that they are unique when in fact they are simply following another trend. When uniqueness is a trend, no one is very unique. Read on to find out how to be truly unique.
Be yourself. If you try to follow a formula for uniqueness, you'll come up short. Instead, focus on your own interests and personal style.
Be aware of your own emotions. Try not to be influenced by other people's emotions. Spending too much time thinking about other people's thoughts can lead you away from your own. Have confidence! Walk into the room proud or excited. Don't be embarrassed!
It's easy to get called names, ridiculed or bullied for being unique, or even just for having an opinion. Just ignore it! Turn an insult into a positive.
Consider your own unique style. You may have developed your own style without even knowing it. Take a closer look at what kinds of clothes you already own.
Decide if you wear clothes to impress others or to feel good while you are wearing them. Do you lean towards "fashion over comfort" or "comfort over fashion?" Cut out pictures of all the clothing styles you like. Don't over think it; look at the picture and make an instant decision. If you love it, cut it out and put it aside.
Try on everything. Something that looks fabulous on a mannequin may not suit you at all, and something that you never thought you'd wear might end up being your favorite piece.
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