Many women seem to believe that the secret to making a guy fall in love is simply a matter of dressing provocatively and looking attractive.
Not so! While the way you look and dress can certainly attract a guy, if you want to actually make him fall in love with you for the long term, you will need to go way beyond surface attractiveness and show him your inner beauty.
Keep reading for some strategies that work.
Be his friend While physical attraction is certainly the first step in a relationship, it tends to fade after a while if that's all there is.
To keep him interested, you will need to show him that you are a fun, interesting person to be with.
Be flirtatious and playful; challenge him intellectually and look for new and interesting things to do.
Find out what his interests are and do your best to share them.
In other words, be his friend.
Establish an emotional bond In the end, it is the emotional bonding that takes place that will lead to a lasting and fulfilling relationship for both of you.
Let him know that you are there for him when he needs to talk and that you know how to be quiet when he doesn't want to talk.
Tell him your hopes and dreams and encourage him to share his with you.
Soon he'll begin to think of you as indispensable to his happiness.
Don't rush him, though - the longer the courtship phase of the relationship the more satisfying it will be in the long run.
Don't be too available too soon Make him work a little to win you over.
It may be old-fashioned, but playing a little hard to get will help to keep him interested.
Don't let him assume that you are always available when he calls.
Keep busy with your career and friends.
He'll value his time with you more if he has to wait a little to see you.
If you've found the right guy, it's not really so difficult to make him fall in love.
It just takes a few simple strategies and a little work on your part and you'll have him for life.