Kids between 3 to 6-year old are still self-centered, and they do not quite understand the meaning of friendship.
Even if he has a good friend, it is closely related to snacks and toys.
Some kids may be unsociable.
Parents find that some kids are good at making friends, and looks like a born social king.
We can see that all these kids share same qualities like friendliness, helpfulness, and they love to share with others and are more active.
On the contrary, some kids are always in conflicts with others.
Some may irritate other pupils by doing something annoying; others may feel hard to get in a group.
When they have such problems, parents should give a helping hand.
There are several reasons for children to be unsociable.
Most commonly, the kids may be irritating.
Children do not like to make friends with ruler-breakers or self-centered kids.
Shy kids may also feel like an outsider as they are afraid of being made fun of.
And shyness is another kind of characteristic that should be removed when a kid is small.
A kid speaks loudly with all kinds of movements and he loves singing and dancing, but when a stranger comes, he is not himself at all.
Parents who have a shy kid must have such experience.
The most embarrassing thing may be that he does not say hello to older generation, or that he turns into a hedgehog when aunts and uncles want to tease him.
Actually, a shy kid is not always shy, and they mostly appear shy in a strange environment or before a stranger.
We now know that any kid can become a talent.
A shy kid is always quiet and obeys rules, but he tends to feel nervous once placed in strange surroundings.
It takes him a longer time to adjust to a new environment.
He may not get much attention from teachers, classmates, and fellow pupils.
He is also deprived of a lot of chances as they do not want to fight for things.
Most importantly, he may feel inferior in this competitive and fast world.
Parents should take these facts into consideration.
How to get rid of these characteristics? You should let your kid know that he is not that different.
He just needs a longer time to get ready before the public than those active fellow pupils.
He should also be taught to fight for his own rights in some conditions.
Besides he also needs to learn the methods and skills which are practical.