- 1). Don't try to be someone your not. If you want to make it to the second date, it's important to act natural, and not make it appear that your behavior is an "act." If you act comfortable, it will make your date feel comfortable, which makes it easier to be around each other and enjoy each other's company.
- 2). Eliminate awkward situations. When you or your date feels awkward, it makes the situation undesirable, and undesirable situations will most likely not be repeated for a second date. Pay close attention to how you speak and try not to be or appear nervous.
- 3). Show interest. Ask questions to make your date feel that you're interested in him, and bring up some of the important things you learn about him later on in the date. Remembering things your date tells you will show that you genuinely care, and are listening to what he is saying.
- 4). Make eye contact. Eye contact shows confidence, trust and attraction. They key to a successful relationship and future dates is interest, attraction and connection; you will not achieve any of these things by looking down while talking to your date.
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