When we have done all that we can do to make our relationship work but it didn't then there is no other choice but to move on but do we do it with regrets or with an optimistic point of view? How we react can influence the new life that's ahead of us.
No one wants to have a failed relationship but it does happen and if it happens to us what should we do? Once we have determine in ourselves that we did all we could to make it work then the next thing to do is to take baby steps to recovery, the reason why I said that is because even in a bad relationship there is still residues of it that lingers and going out on a limb doing things that is totally against our nature is not going to make those lingering feelings go away.
A broken relationship is like a sickness, it takes time to heal so take baby steps toward recovery.
Develop an optimistic point of view, o.
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that relationship ended but we are the same Person with the same ideas and values concentrate on the things we want to do.
Live our life for ourselves and not for the missing Person.
If it was that Person who wanted to leave, they had their reason.
If it is us, then we have ours.
The point is to not cry over spilled milk.
Life is too short to be dwelling on the Past the Future lies ahead and we can make it as bright as we like.
Just a word of caution, we need to be aware that our income has been cut at least in half so we would need to be more careful in our spending an adjustment might need to be made but it can be done.
We should contact friends, maybe doing the course of the relationship we've lost contact with some of them, it might be good to get reacquainted with them, a true friend will always understand.
Although we might want to move on with our lives quickly but I do not recommend entering into another relationship so soon we need time to heal and getting involved again quickly doesn't give us that healing process.
We could very easily carry over our baggage into the other relationship and that could ruin the new relationship even before it gets off the ground.
By Lizzie Ducking