I wish I could tell you that the answer to how to cure a sexless marriage is as simple as having sex but that would be a complete lie.
Although having sex with your spouse after not having sex with each other for a long time will relieve a lot of stress and tension; it may also make things worse.
Listen to your heart.
I am not sure exactly why the two of you are not having sex because I do not live inside your home, but I can tell you that allowing yourself to follow your heart will lead you back into the arms of the one you love; your husband or wife.
Sometimes people can get so caught up in the whys and why not's that they do not take the time to be grateful and appreciative for what they have.
If your marriage was operating smoothly before the two of you stopped having sex; attempt to backtrack to the part where things took a turn for the worse.
The answer to the question of how to cure a sexless marriage begins with you.
If you are successful in pinpointing when the sex stopped within your marriage then you can make strides toward rekindling the passion and desire that you have longed for.
On the other hand, if you cannot find the start of your sexless marriage do not sweat it, sometimes the mind automatically blocks out situations that are difficult for us to handle to protect us in some way or another.
In other words, you may not remember because it may be a little too painful but either way there is still hope for you and your marriage.
Communication is key in trying to overcome this issue.
If you and your spouse are not exchanging a valuable conversation relating to the lack of sex within your marriage, how can you expect it to get better? Regardless of who the at fault party is, one or both of you will have to decide to be the "bigger person" and lay all of the cards out on the table.
How can any one person be to blame for the sexless marriage when it takes two to have couples sex? After all a marriage is a sacred union that affords you the opportunity to speak with your partner openly and honestly.
I don't really know why couples even face these challenges when they have vowed to do certain things within the relationship.
The bottom line is you cannot expect anything to change if neither person knows the cause.
Get yourselves back into the swing of things.
Whether you are one month or twenty five years into your marriage, treating your spouse to a night on the town or dinner and a movie never gets old.
What do the two of you enjoy doing together? Do you like to dance, frequent nightclubs, go bowling or go bike riding? Whatever you and your wife or husband find enjoyable as a unit; I would suggest you partake in one of these activities as an ice breaker so that the two of you can get used to each other's company again.
By doing activities that require physical contact or frequent eye contact, the two of you will be able to concentrate on one another opposed to the distractions of the world.