Have you sat by and watched your friends get chased by a guy time and again, but it has never happened to you? Do you often wonder what you could be doing wrong to repel guys from you instead of attract them? Is there a long list of things you've tried to get the attention of a guy, but none of them have ever worked? Take a look at what you could be doing wrong.
One of the biggest mistakes women make when they want to get the attention of the guy is that they simply try too hard.
They go overboard with their physical appearance, often overplaying the sexual aspect of who they are.
They're too nice, too gushy, too eager and basically come off as just too desperate.
Few men will chase after a woman who wants it that much.
There's simply no fun in it.
So back off a bit.
Present yourself in an attractive, but fun way and don't put all the emphasis on your sexuality.
Then show the world that you're a great person to be around.
Have fun and let your personality shine through.
Radiating this positive and festive energy will attract attention, and when the guy sees that you don't appear too interested in nabbing a guy, he'll be more apt to actually make a move.
And when he does, don't jump on him with a yes, yes, yes.
Play it cool, be polite and friendly, but let him see that you're just interested in chatting with him, nothing more.
The fact that you're not jumping all over him will turn on his chasing switch and he'll feel the need to conquer you; you've just become a challenge to be overcome.
The important thing to remember is to find that great balance of cool and calm, without appearing aloof and cold.
You want him to know that talking to you will be fun and easy, you just don't want him thinking that he's already won you over.
Make him prove himself to you and let him do all he can to impress you.
Men will pursue what attracts them and what isn't easily attainable.
Let that be you.