Many guys struggle with learning how to pick up women, but most don't realize how easy and fun it really can be. One of the worst things you can do as a guy is try to copy off of someone else. If you try to act like someone you are not, such as being flashy, it will be a big turnoff for any women that might be interested in you. To your advantage, there are hundreds of ways to pick up women, many of which can be really interesting and easier than you ever thought.

One of the biggest determining factors in how attractive you are to women are how you present yourself. If you dress like a slob, don't care of your self by taking a shower often or brushing your teeth for instance, many women will simply be turned off by you. You need to start taking better care of yourself and generally just be clean. Another big turnoff for some women is being flashy just for the sake of saying to the world, "I'm important!". Women like to see a guy that can take care of himself, but you don't need to be flashy. No amount of money you have or the kind of car you drive is going to determine your real success with women. Obviously there will be some women out there that will always love the guy with all the cash in the world, but deep down you will not find a women that truly respects you.

After figuring out the best ways to present yourself, you need to ask yourself this question, "Why would women want to date me". What can you do for them that is so different. Women like to see men with confidence, not arrogance, and will usually go for guys with a head on his shoulders. If you want to know how to pick up women, look and see how other guys present themselves to women. Do they wear fancy designer clothes, or are they just dressed average? Can you really tell the difference between a $100 dollar shirt and a $40 shirt? Most guys that know how to pick up women usually have greater success because they present themselves in a good way.

So what ways can you really be unique and present yourself in a good way? Any guy can walk up to a woman in a crowded bar and use a few pick up lines, but very few think of unique ways to actually stand out from the crowd. Every guy can spend lavishly on a fancy dinner and tickets to the theater, but how many of us think of new and creative dates? Why not try a trip to an imax theater, or a rafting trip to a place shes never been. Women love to be spontaneous and absolutely fall for a guy that can surprise them and do unique things for them. If your not the type of guy to be outdoors, or its too cold, try a museum or even a round of bowling. The point is, women like guys to be different.