Today, with the information technology and the internet we have lost our ability to communicate with each other and so when losing a job in anemic economy becomes tough..
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It's why me! We are forced to efface blame on others and become depressed and angry.
This leads to a path of failed entitlement and usually renders us motionless and therefore invisible.
For me, several years ago, I faced that same horrific loss that lead I down a path of horrific entitlement that crippled my well being and others around me.
It lead me back down a road into my childhood when I was empowered to do anything that I wanted to do in life.
I had no paradigms, anger or resentment just positive thoughts..
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one good thing could leads to another.
Slowly, I was forced myself to think positive and decided on a simple course of empowerment.
In the beginning it was tough because I lacked humility, self worth and strength of purpose.
I soon released that I was powerless over everyone and everything around me and change could only be affected by my actions and thoughts.
I decided to become visible again my restoring my character, feelings and actions and started simple.
The sacrifice came in the form of lower paying jobs and even two at times to pay my bills, but I stay focused, measured and positive and this triggered the concept of "attraction" and not promotion.
Here's a couple of things you can do when you lost a job, your moral compass and think that life has dealt you a crushing blow.
1) Go back to basics and rediscover yourself.
What did you like to do when you were a child? 2) Take responsibility for what did or didn't for people and intended consequences you may have caused.
3) Let your anger go by realizing that it is caused by built up resentments.
It's all about you and not the other person.
4) Lives within your means and "realize" that other's feel the same way you do.
5) Never hold person in "contempt" prior to investigation.
Take off your blinders and minimize judgments about others.
6) Do some philanthropic work and you will see that most of the nation lives well beneath your means.
How are they happy? Is it family? Simplicity? 7) Get a hobby that is productive? Do you like to sing, write, and help others? 8) Live in the moment and don't project if things get worse.
You only have that one day and than you move on to another.
9) If you are able..
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apologize to a few people that you've hurt.
It cleanses your soul.
10) Lastly, be yourself! Not what other perceived you to be...
family, friends and colleagues? Do you know who you are? As I began to practice these suggestions my life improved dramatically and opportunities presented themselves in strange ways just like when I was a young boy.
I began to dream again but it was only through empowering myself.
All you have in life is you.
Don't let years or people pass you by because you think you deserve something.
For me life is about helping people provided that you don't become invested in people.
There is a difference.
By helping the helpless and not clueing in the clueless- your life has purpose and it shines in everything you do.