- 1). Prepare for your first date. Call ahead for reservations. Pick up flowers or candy. Read the news and decide on several noncontroversial topics for conversation lulls. Select the clothes to wear.
- 2). Conduct yourself as a gentleman or a lady. Go to the door and pick her up. Pull her chair back for her to sit down. Walk outside her closest to the curb. Allow him to open the door for you. Express appreciation for his acts with a simple thank you.
- 3). Touch each other. Place your hand in his as you exit the car. Put your hand on the small of her back as you guide her through a crowded restaurant or to your table. Touch his shoulders when returning from the ladies' room. Tuck her hand under your arm while walking.
- 4). Flirt with each other. Look in her eyes when she talks. Laugh at his jokes. Share smiles.
- 5). Keep a lively discussion going. Talk about activities you enjoy and participate in. Relate stories about the friends who set you up. Discuss anything but religion, politics or money. Ask a few questions, but keep the tone lighthearted.
- 6). Open the door to a second date. Inform her about a new concert date for a group you both enjoy and inquire if she has plans that night. Hint about a new art exhibit you want to see and ask if he wants to join you.
- 7). Conclude the date by walking her to her door. Wait for her to lean in before giving her a kiss good night. Shake his hand and thank him for the date, even if there was no chemistry.