Are you tired of waiting and want to make him fall in love fast? Are you trying to figure out why you can't attract men who will stay? Is there a man in your life who won't commit and you want to make him commit? Whether there is already a special someone in your life or not, the rules are the same. In order to make him fall in love, follow this down-to-earth dating advice.

The first thing you have to realize is that behind their macho exterior, men are looking for love just as much as women are. Yes, they are attracted to the girls with the hottest bodies, but that's just lust, not love. There are girls who have seduction down to a fine art, but they rarely keep a man for long, because deep down, men are looking for more than sex in a relationship, just like girls are. What is it they are looking for?

Ask yourself what you are looking for in a relationship and you will find your answer. Sure, you want to be with a guy you're not embarrassed to be with in public. You want him to look good and be presentable, but he doesn't have to be a poster boy. You want a guy who cares about you. When you're happy, he shares your happiness and makes you feel even happier. When you're feeling down, he listens and makes you feel better.

You also want a guy who respects you for who you are. When you're around him, you don't feel like you have to pretend to be someone you're not. He can see you when you're looking a little ragged around the edges, but you know he won't care.

Guys are the same. If you can make him feel around you the way you want to feel around him, you're on the way to success. Now you have to be patient and make him realize what a good thing he's onto.

The next step may take longer than you think it should. When a girl falls in love, she knows it and readily surrenders to love. Guys, on the other hand, fight it. There's something in the male psychology that is afraid of love and especially commitment. Just when you think he's yours, he may back off. Don't push him too hard - that will drive him away and not make him fall in love. Instead, make him realize what he'll be losing if he loses you.

If he backs off, the last thing you want to do is chase him. If you're sure he's really in love with you, he'll come back. Be pleased to hear from him, but don't be too overjoyed. If he asks you out, you might even want to tell him you have other plans. Don't be too hard on him, though. Make him feel welcome to try again, but on your terms, not his.

It may sound contradictory, but when it comes to guys, it's true. The best way to make him fall in love with you is to really be in love with him but make him earn your love before you give him all of yours.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.