Were you raised to be a nice girl who sat by and simply waited for a guy to pass and fall in love with you? Have you never learned the art of getting a man to really want to be with you? As you watch your friends and how they behave around men, does it seem to be something you could never do? It's quite normal to be a little shy or nervous around men, especially if you've never spent much time around them.
And even more so if that guy is cute, adorable, handsome, sexy, good-looking and just plain delicious.
Things sure have changed over the past few decades and you may have noticed that not too many women today are playing the nice girl.
On the contrary.
It's almost a matter of, the more sex you can go out there and have, the cooler, more modern and hip you are.
Now, that's all good and well if this is a lifestyle choice for you.
That is to say that you are consciously going out there knowing that you will meet a man and have fun for a few nights then move on to the next man.
However, if you're going out there with your naughty girl attitude, but you really want to land yourself a good man who will stick around for more than just a few nights, you may be surprised by the results.
Men tend to look at women who get around a lot as, well, women who get around too much.
Not every man is attracted to this type of woman, especially when it comes to settling down and meeting a woman he can truly have a relationship with.
The nice girl can win at this game.
You just have to play it smart.
Don't just sit there waiting for him to notice you.
Go up to him and strike up a friendly and intelligent conversation.
You don't have to think of a pick up line or a cool line of seduction.
Just be yourself and ask him a few questions about himself.
Then let him take it from there.
Show your interest in him by being a good listener and asking additional pertinent questions to keep him going.
When he asks about you, give him a few vague but interesting tidbits that might interest him and keep him interested.
Before you know it he'll be opening up to you, feeling comfortable around you and you'll be going out to have a great time together.
The more comfortable he feels, the more great times he has with you and the more fond he becomes of you as a woman, the more he'll fall in love with you.