How should you react if your first date in trying to get your ex back goes all wrong? Although you might have followed all the right strategies and plans that took you till this first date with your ex after your break up with him/her, do you stand a chance if the date itself goes wrong? Yes, you do.
You are a bit far away from where you wanted to be in time, but that does not mean your road is blocked.
But you need to diligently follow a sequence of steps to get back on track.
1.
Take a break - don't try to get another date with your ex right after the first one failed to work out.
That way, the next date is also probably not going to work.
2.
Take care of yourself - your ex is going to like it next time s/he sees you.
Also, it gives your self-confidence a much-needed boost.
Take the right nutritious food and wear the good clothes.
3.
After sufficient time elapses, make another initial contact.
Chances are s/he is still going to react positively if you make this contact free of panic, desperate tones, pleads and demonstration of self-pity.
4.
Initiate a date with your ex again.
You can do it in the same way that you had initiated the first date.
In the meanwhile, during your break, re-evaluate your relationship and evaluate what might have gone wrong in your failed first date with your ex after the break up.
answers to those would tell you what not to do and which are the best activities and words going forward.
If subsequent dates fail, ask yourself a hard question, is this the right relationship for you at all?