Desensitizing the penis is one way to last a few more minutes in the bedroom.
But is it the best way? Are there much better alternatives? Get the full picture and analysis in this article.
Is Your Penis Too Sensitive? Many guys think that premature ejaculation is caused by having a penis that is simply too sensitive and that this is why you get aroused so quickly and "shoot your load" in just two or three minutes.
So the theory goes that if you desensitize it then you can last longer.
Anesthetics The most common method of desensitizing your penis is to use an anesthetic cream or spray.
These can be applied liberally to the penis before sex.
You can even get condoms containing anesthetic that have the same effect although they are not as flexible.
Simply apply when you achieve an erection and then later when you start penetration, the anesthetic will have taken effect.
It's a good idea to wipe off any excess first, unless you are wearing a condom, otherwise your partner will also become desensitized.
You can last longer, between 5 and 10 minutes longer using this method.
The True Cause Of Premature Ejaculation The true cause of premature ejaculation is anxiety in the bedroom.
Even if you are confident outside of it, if you worry or get preoccupied about how long you have left then you will ejaculate early.
The more you focus on it, the earlier it will happen.
The key to overcoming it is to eliminate this anxiety.
How To Eliminate The Anxiety? There are a variety of ways to do this.
Trying more beneficial positions with less friction can help increase your confidence.
For some men, drugs can be a last resort but these also affect you outside of the bedroom.
The best method is "natural training" that builds your enjoyment of sex and takes away your worries until you develop "total ejaculatory control" and can ejaculate whenever you want to.