Have you ever been in a situation or are you even in a situation now where your wife of many years suddenly tells you that she does not love you anymore? What do you do in such a situation? While we are going to look at the best possible line of action to take a little later in this write up, let's look at what your possible reaction could be.
When you as a husband who still loves his wife find himself in such a situation, first and foremost you will be emotionally devastated.
This devastation will come even before the true meaning of what she said has really sunk in.
If care is not taken, your first action or actions after that may ruin your chances of ever salvaging your marriage.
There are also various things which can cause this sudden declaration from your wife, if you had been a very attentive husband then you would undoubtedly have noticed it coming because the storm must have been brewing for some time.
The principal cause of this kind of declaration is depression and as you may know the depression could have been caused by many different things.
It could be work related or family related but whatever the cause is, the fact remains that it is not something that happened over night.
If you and your wife had a good communication practice between the both of you then you would know exactly when she stopped been the real her.
However, no matter what the cause of the declaration may be, what you should do in that situation i.
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the best line of action is to take some time to reflect.
Go as far back as you can in your thoughts and weigh up what and what could have led your once blissful marriage to this stage.
This is not the best time to give in to whatever she demands especially if the source of her depression is not any fault of yours or is it the best time to try to be a better husband by trying random things to see if it makes a difference.
You very well may be spinning your wheels.
After taking the time out to reflect, you should allow the shock of the declaration to wane before you seek professional help.
The best bet is to go online for the help, it is by far cheaper than going to an offline counselor's office and you can review the resources that you have gotten at your own time.
Also with your wife's out of love declaration, it would be very difficult to talk her into attending a counseling session with you.
By accessing any of the many good guides available online, you will be able to start working on your marriage alone until such a time that you have been able to bring your wife to a state where she re-discovers the values in your marriage.