Are you wondering how to get back with your ex partner? Start by asking yourself and deciding that you really want them back There is a feeling that it is easier to get back with an old partner than starting the difficult dating game with someone new.
There is often a feeling that you are better to stay in a bad situation where at least you know each other.
It is always more difficult to break up a relationship when you have children and common ownership in the property where you are living than if the relationship has not been going very long.
Having said this, it is common knowledge that most couples regularly break up for wrong reasons and it is sad that they are not able to come back together.
Nobody really knows the number of broken relationships that should have worked out but didn't because there was a petty argument or someone's pride stood in the way of a solution; so make sure that your relationship does not go the same way.
What can you do when you are sure you want your ex back? Absence does not always make the heart grow fonder, because familiarity has a great effect on what may be considered attractive.
As time goes on in a relationship the physical attraction that was so prominent at the start may lessen or even disappear and change into an attraction that is much deeper and lasts.
So what you have to do is to make sure that you meet your ex by chance without giving them the impression that you are chasing after them.
What is important is that when you see them you must be smiling and clearly enjoying yourself, so that your ex gets the impression that they are missing out on something great by not getting back together with you.
If they see you sad they will not want to be associated with you; if they see you happy you will leave them wondering why they ever left you in the first place.
Never forget the importance of maintaining eye contact with them as this is another factor that is considered very appealing, but be careful not to overdo it.
Ignore the fancy sayings and chat as well as other games.
Be frank if you want them back and tell them so.
If you made mistakes, you should apologise for them and just say that you want to give your relationship another try.
You may find that they do not agree to another chance but you will never know until you ask and if they turn you down, it will only be your pride that is a little dented.
When you really desire something in life, you have to go out and get it.
If you read the Magic Of Making Up, you will realize that there is little that causes a relationship not to survive and be ameliorated on if both the couple behave as adults and you want to and are able to move on to better times.
Now that you know what to do to get back with your ex, so go ahead and put this advice into action.
Joe Bisley