Couples are always getting back together.
Even though you may think yours is so different, relationships are the same the world over.
Sound a bit cryptic? Let me explain.
Does Your Ex Still Love You? As you read this, your experiences are being shared by people on every part of the planet.
Does it upset them like what you are going through? Absolutely.
I have been right there where you are now, and so I know what you are going through.
Ii am sorry to say this, but, you may have to hurt for a bit before you can pull through.
The good news is that if you really want to get them back, you can.
Knowing what's best to say, and when to do so, is the secret.
Learn how to trigger their hot buttons so you can steer them back to you.
What was your relationship like to begin with? Was it really working? Are there things you would like to prevent this time round? Is there any point getting back together, and then making the same mistakes again? You want to avoid going through this all again in a few months time.
When you get your ex back, make sure you keep them this time.
Remember, You Can Only Change Yourself Maybe someone else has told you this.
Don't worry yourself only with your ex.
It is much simpler to change yourself than convince another person to change.
Without wanting to be annoying, who they are now is who they will always be.
Don't forget you used to love them as they are.
Would you really want to change them? Concern yourself with who you are, and what you are like.
Are you perfect? What would you do differently if you could go back in time? If you come up with nothing, think a bit longer.
Blaming your ex for the situation will just make you bitter and depressed.
This doesn't mean you should blame only yourself either.
Understand that it has happened, for whatever reason, and now think about how you can rectify the situation.
Maybe you could make a few improvements to yourself that might make you more appealing? Who Loves Who The Most? Loving someone else more than they do you actually does suck.
It is also not too cool when another person loves you more than you do them.
It makes most of us a little uncomfortable.
At worst we end up a little freaked out.
The moral - don't be that desperate, freaky person.
Believe you can get back with your ex.
It can happen, and it will.
Your situation is serious.
You have to have the right moves, and know how, and when to use them.