Yes the relationship that you thought would last forever has ended. Before you even think about getting back together, there's something you must ask yourself.

The very first question you must ask yourself before mending your marriage or relationship is if both parties want to mend the relationship. Getting back together after a breakup has to be something that both parties want to happen. It will be pointless for you to want to mend your marriage or relationship, only to realise that the other person is not willing to do it or does not want to do it. So the first step in mending the relationship is that you both must want to mend it.

When a relationship breaks down, both parties are usually involved to a certain extent, but not equally. For a relationship to be mended, both parties must be willing to evaluate what really happened and to take responsibility on their contribution to the relationship breaking down. To mend a broken relationship takes effort, commitment and time, and both parties must be willing to go through this route to fix the relationship.

It is extremely important that both parties are committed in sorting out the issues in the broken relationship. This is because mending it will require work from the both of you, and if it is important to both of you to work things out, you will both be committed to doing whatever needs to be done to get your relationship working and happy again. The relationship, with the two parties willing to work on it, will have a better chance than if only one party is willing to work on it.

If a relationship is important to the both of you, you will both make it your priority. Both partners will need to sort out their individual issues that may have jeopardized the relationship, and both partners will need to support each other in overcoming issues that contributed to the relationship breaking down. A common goal is needed for the relationship to survive, and it can be done.

It will not be easy, because if it was all people would have great relationship and divorce would be much lower than it is right now. But with a great support system, friends and family and sometimes professional help, couples have been able to find their way back to each other.

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