Have you been trying anything and everything you know to do to win your ex back, all with no success? If so, you are likely getting to the point where you are about ready to "throw in the towel" and admit defeat.
You want to win your ex back, but what you've been doing thus far has, obviously, not been working, so is it time to move on? You are likely reluctant to truly give up if you really love your ex and want him or her back in your life.
So perhaps rather than cut your losses and give up, you should try a different strategy.
Chances are, you've been employing one of the many common - but sadly highly unsuccessful - strategies we so often look to.
We are lonely, miserable, and heartbroken.
So it seems natural to think that if you beg, plead, and do all you can to explain your case, that this should make your efforts to win your ex back successful, right? WRONG! Even if you were able to pity your way back into his or her life, it won't last long.
Someone cannot stay in a relationship long term simply because they feel bad for you.
And honesty, why would you want that? You want your ex to love you, not feel sorry for you, and if you get him or her back by begging and pleading, its easy to see which camp your relationship will fall into, and this is not what you are looking for when trying to win your ex back.
If this doesn't work, then what will work to win your ex back? It all depends, but what I can tell you is that begging and pleading are NOT the right way to go.
It is best to try to move on with your life as though the breakup doesn't bother you.
Look good, go out with your friends and have a good time.
Sooner or later, your ex is going to hear about how good you look and what a good time you are having, and will be chomping at the bit to get in contact with you.
This will be your chance to be a success and win your ex back!