If you have lost your partner to an argument that has cost you your relationship then instead of weeping or pleading with your ex, it would be better to make the right moves to win your ex back.
Here are some moves on how to get back the one you love so as to happily open the doors of a new and enhanced relationship.
Step back from the delicate situation The immediate time after the breakup is very delicate since anything you say in anger can and will be used against you since there will be hostile feelings from your ex too.
A sensible move would be to step back from the delicate situation and allow flared tempers to cool down.
Stay in touch with reality You might be in a tumulus state of mind but that does not imply that you make grand plans on forcing your ex to come back to you.
You will need to stay in touch with reality and attract the one that you love back into your life instead of pursuing your ex relentlessly and watching him/her vanish into the horizon.
Earn your respect back There might have been several heated sentences exchanged during the breakup that might have lowered your respect in front of your loved one.
You need to now behave maturely so as to earn back that lost respect since love will not flourish where there is no respect.
Dump the pain in the trashcan of forgiveness Although you might have said and heard a lot of painful words during the breakup it is vital that you dump all the pain in the trashcan of forgiveness.
This is the only way to wipe the painful past clean and look forward optimistically to a new future.
Write it out to your ex Since talking to your ex might bring back painful memories and result in fresh wounds being created, a better way would be to write your thoughts on paper.
You can ask common friends to deliver your maturely-written letter that forgives and asks for forgiveness in a clear and honest manner.
Your letter might end up soothing your ex's nerves and compel him/her to think about getting back together.
Let the focus remain on your life Do not obsess about what your ex will say, do, or not do after reading your letter.
Instead, let the focus remain only on your life.
You should make sure that you work hard, party a little and remain cocooned within your family and friends so as to ride out this storm without suffering any permanent damage.
Watch your ex return back into your arms If your ex too is repentant after the breakup and still loves you as much as you do to him/her then your letter and your subtle actions will simply act as a catalyst in getting both of you together again.
Your honesty and your forgiving nature will inspire your ex to do the same and the final result of the above moves will result in a happy reunion with the one you love.