Handling relationship problems would have been so easy if only we knew how the other person's psychology worked.
Understanding your ex partner's mindset about you, is the biggest challenge if you are trying to get your ex back after the breakup.
Read on, if you want to dig deep into your partner's psychology and try to get back together.
Don't linger If you go anywhere near your ex- partner while you are on the verge of a break up, you will promote your partner's feelings that you are needy and clingy.
He or she will be completely convinced that breaking up was the right decision.
Take cover If you want to make your ex think of you in a positive way, then don't be seen.
In other words, give your partner a chance to miss you.
The more your partner does not see or hear of you, the more he or she will want to know if you are doing okay.
Resurface You have got your ex thinking about you.
Your next move should be quick before he or she gets a chance to move on.
Come out of hiding and show up in front of your ex 'accidentally'.
Appear completely happy and stable with your new life.
Balance it out You have to strike a balance between appearing completely nonchalant and too caring.
You have to care just enough to rouse your partner's interest in you, and appear just cool about it.
Rebuild relationship Relationship necessarily does not have to be the girlfriend-boyfriend type.
Be mature in handling your breakup and offer only friendship.
Slowly get your ex partner confide in you, like it used to be before.
This is the way you can make yourself indispensable in your ex partner's life.
Planned outing After you and your partner are on excellent talking terms, take it to the next level by inviting him or her to an outing.
It should sound very impulsive and your ex should not get the wind about your careful planning.
If he or she is not comfortable coming out alone with you, then invite a few of your common friends along.
Face to face After you get comfortable meeting up and going out together, time now is to face the facts.
If there is a conversation about what went wrong with the both of you, face the facts and accept your mistakes.
Tell your partner that given a chance you wouldn't do the same mistakes and would do everything to make it work.