"Breaking up is hard to do".
We all know the song and the sentiment is something which rings true to us all.
It's something we don't really think about - until it happens to us, of course.
Breaking up can be an incredibly hard and stressful thing and you may want to get your ex back more than anything.
I'd like to give you a little information about how you can successfully get back with your ex after a breakup.
There are some things which have worked to bring exes crawling back.
If you've recently broken up with someone, you have my sympathy - it's a hard time, no doubt about it.
A lot of people think of their ex incessantly following a breakup.
They can't sleep, they can't eat - they feel awful.
However, following these tips can help you to get your ex back if that's what you really want.
The most important thing of all is this: do not, repeat do not get in touch with your ex! A lot of people can't manage to stay away and as a result ruin their chances of reunion.
They will email, call, send text messages, hoping that this will make their ex come back to them.
If you want to revive the relationship, you absolutely must not do this.
This will only irritate your ex and will not help you.
Give them some space.
This is why you should not try to contact your ex - they will actually want to get in touch with you! When your ex thinks about the fact that you haven't contacted them, they will become curious about what you are up to and call you.
They're expecting that you'll call and beg them to take you back and if you fail to do this, they'll be thrown off balance.
It's hard not to contact your ex, but vitally important to your chances of getting them back.
If you give them space, they'llcome to you - and then the balance of power will have shifted towards you! There are also some things which you must absolutely not do.
Never, ever under any circumstances should you: Call your ex's friends, either to gripe to them or to ask for their advice on getting your ex back.
Drink and dial your ex.
Beg, plead or apologize to your ex.
There are other "must nots", but these are the three most important.
You have to avoid appearing like you have been crushed by the loss and you definitely don't want to look needy.
When you are sad, you are not attractive and this is not how you want your ex to see you! These are just a few tips which can help you in getting your ex back.
There are other proven strategies which can help you to recover a relationship.
You just have to have a strategy in mindand know what missteps to avoid if you want to have a chance of getting your ex back to your side.