If you are going through a break up right now things may seem a bit hectic and all over the place.
The first thing you need to do is to straighten out your thoughts and just try to relax as much as possible.
The more emotional you are the worse your chances are going to be of getting your ex back.
One thing you must remember is to give your ex some space in the beginning, they need time to clear their head as well...
It is also important that you simply agree with the break up at first...
I know it will be hard and it may seem a bit counter intuitive but it works to show that you are an independent person who isn't needy or desperate.
Also, stay away from calling or texting your partner too soon right after a break up...
Give them some time to miss you.
If they do end up calling you, make sure you do not engage in an argument, this is the fastest way to end things completely, you have to be the cool, calm, and collected one...
If you ex does call do not bring up the relationship, just talk as if you are talking to an old friend.
After some time has passed you can look into contacting your ex to see if they would like to meet up just to talk...
When you meet with them just act as if you are talking to an old friend, don't come off as needy or desperate to back into the relationship...