Has this happened to you?You're crying and screaming, "I love you and I want you back", as your wife slams the door in your face while she storms out of the house.
Silently you cry, remember I love you and I want you back.
But will she come back?Or is she gone for good? So what stupid thing did you do this time?Or was it an accumulation of your dumb insensitive behavior that drove her out?Sadly, you probably deserved it.
If you were, boorish,cruel and insensitive to the woman you love, you warrant everything she can throw at you.
But it's a little too late to be crying and begging her to take you back now.
The damage has already been done, and no amount of "sweet talking" is going to get your wife back this time.
But it's not a hopeless cause.
Many a marriage and relationship has been saved through hard work on your part.
That's right!If you truly love your wife and want her back, then you're going to have to work at changing.
After all, she just left you, and she certainly isn't going to return to the same old you.
If you're serious about the words, "I love you and I want you back", then here are two action steps you must take to get your wife back.
Step #1.
Admit you made a mistake.
For many men, this is the hardest step.
Men don't often like to admit they were wrong, because it requires humility.
Women love a humble man who knows when he's wrong.
So please don't make excuses for what you did or justify your actions.
Admit you were wrong and shut up.
If your wife is still angry with you, and she probably will be, listen to what she has to say and above all AGREE WITH HER!Don't try to defend your actions or inactions.
Don't deceive her.
Just be open and honest and tell her you blew it, plain and simple.
Also don't try to minimize your mistake by saying that it's really nothing.
If this mistake is jeopardizing your marriage, it's really a big deal to your wife.
Step #2.
Take action to remedy the situation today.
Don't just tell your wife you'll change or that you'll mend your ways.
Chances are she's probably heard it all before.
You didn't keep your promise then and you'll probably not keep your promise now.
Actions speaks louder than words.
If you promised her you'll come straight home after work from now on, then do it!If you told your wife you'd stop spending so much time with your old buddies, then do it!If you told her you're going to help with the chores around the house and watch the children, then do the laundry, do the dishes, dust, clean the bathrooms, change the diapers, and play with your children.
The point is that the time for words is over.
Now it will take action to get your wife to believe you, and for you to even have a chance of getting her back.
And if you have an alcohol, drug, or some kind of abuse problem, get some help now!Show your wife that you've joined AA, or some drug rehab program, or an anger management program before you even go talk to her.
Whatever problem you may have, take the necessary steps to get it resolved.
This is taking action.
This is what it will take when you tell her, "remember I love you and I want you back".
If you're not committed to taking action and changing, you might as well start the divorce proceedings today.
I realize that this might seem like a lot of work, but not only will it benefit your wife and your marriage, but it will also help you tremendously.
It will help you to grow and become a better person.
The kind of person your wife can love again.
Unfortunately, I think some of you are imbued with false pride and think you're perfect just the way you are.
Well you're not!The "proud and perfect you" just got dumped.
Swallow your pride, humble yourself, and admit that you have problems.
Only then can you build a better you.
A new you that your wife will want back! For more information go to remember love.