Okay, magic doesn't really work.
I wish it did, but there are steps you can take that work like magic.
They're so easy and have such a high success rate that many people say 'it works like magic'.
Getting back with an ex is about using basic psychological tactics.
  Here they are: Be Cool:  Desperation and neediness are both repellants.
You might often win your ex's pity by acting needy, but you will never win back his or her heart.
Be strong.
Be cool.
Say to them: Hey, I think this breakup is best for both us.
I think we both need this.
That's a cool statement and it completely changes the psychology of the situation.
They know you're cool with it and they'll begin the second-guess the breakup.
Write the Second Chance Letter:  Below I link to a program where you can get the second chance letter, but basically what this letters says is that you agree with the breakup, you wish them well and are excited to move on with your own life.
The breakup has given you a sense of freedom.
Write the letter by hand and mail it.
Don't type it because it's less personal and don't e-mail it because e-mail isn't as personal.
You want your handwriting, your personal touch in the second chance letter.
Now there is a precise way to do this, so use the template provided below.
Be Flexible:  This means don't say 'get your crap outta the house by Friday'..
Tell your ex to take their time picking up their belongings...
tell your ex he or she can pick up her belonging at their convenience.
Have Fun: Look up old friends and hit the town.
Do the things you love.
By doing this you change your attitude and your ex will learn through friends that you're having a good time and he or she will get jealous and begin to wonder if they made a mistake breaking up with you.
Okay, let me give you one more "magical" way to get your ex back.
If you have a MySpace or Facebook profile chances are your ex is going to check it to see what you've been up to.
When you're out partying with friends or doing any activity you love make sure you take a lot of photos, and then place those photos on your MySpace or Facebook profile.
Let you ex see all the fun you're having and I can guarantee he or she is going to have a tough time with it.
They'll likely contact you.
This one simple tactic has brought many couples back together.
There you have the "magical" ways of getting your ex back.
Please follow this advice and I can guarantee you'll be back with your ex in a few short weeks.