If your ex girlfriend wants to get back together, it can be confusing to know what to do.
Should you get back together? Or are you happier apart? You need to take some time to think about what you'll do before you give her an answer.
That way, you'll make the right choice, the one you can live with.
First, think back over your relationship.
Were you happy together? Did she meet your needs, and you meet hers? It may be that you don't even know what you truly need from a relationship.
If this is the case, it will be hard for any woman to make you happy.
To figure out your needs, you can start with some common ones to all men.
Most men want respect in a relationship.
They want a woman who treats them well, listens to them, and looks up to them.
They don't want someone who nags all the time, tells them what to do, or makes fun of them.
Is your girlfriend someone who respects you? If not, is that something that may change in the future? You also want a partner you can respect.
In the relationship, if both people are not able to respect each other, it's likely that the relationship will fail.
So your girlfriend should be someone you feel is similar to you, intellectually and spiritually.
Another need men have is having fun.
Did you and your ex have fun in your relationship? Did she fill you with a sense of adventure and daring? If not, then can it be changed?