It's final.
You want to win her back.
You're miserable without her and tired of the anguish.
You've decided you want to get back together and you've been running thoughts and ideas through your mind on how to go about it.
You've thought about gifts, love letters, text messages and emails.
You've thought about accepting all of the blame for the break up just to get her back.
Well it's time for you to let those thoughts go and start from scratch.
You see, no matter the reason for the break up or who is the one that initiated it, there are things you should and shouldn't do.
It's as simple as that.
The problem is that most guys don't know the difference between the two.
That's what we're going to take a look at.
Assessment-The first thing you need to do is to assess the relationship.
Get a clear understanding of what went wrong and what went right.
This will enable you to change things where you need to and what strengths you can build on.
Break Down the Barriers-Resistance needs to be overcome first and foremost.
The easiest and fastest way to do that is to simply agree with her about the break up.
Tell her that you agree it's the best for both of you.
Be genuine and honest.
This will bring down those walls of resistance crashing to the ground quicker than anything else you can do.
This will open up the doors to allow you to employ the next steps you need to win her back.
Repair Yourself-Concentrate on taking care of yourself and getting a grip on the situation.
Accept the fact that the relationship is over and that you have to win her back.
Take a long, hard look at yourself.
What things can you enhance.
Oh sure you can go out and get yourself some new clothes.
That's a good idea but you need to look a little deeper too.
How about your self confidence? I know that's easier said than done but if you can show the world how confident you are in yourself you'll be way ahead of the game.
Walk tall and smile.
It will help you in more ways than one.
You also need to keep your emotions in check.
Never let them get the best of you.
If you do, you will most likely do and say thing you'll later regret.
You need to keep a clear head.
These three things alone will help set you on the path to getting back together with your ex.
However, there's much more that you can do.
So many in fact that I can't begin to go over them in this short article.
Let's just say that you need to have a plan.
Without a plan you'll be shooting in the dark.
That's way too risky.
Don't ever take chances.
You don't want to cause your ex to turn away from you permanently.
With the right methods and mindset, you can win her back into your life and have a better, stronger relationship.