It might feel like it's impossible to get your ex back but rest assured, the act of bringing them back is not as hard as you might think.
If you have recently come out of a break up, it is likely they still have deep feelings for you and will be easier to persuade.
So here are the steps you need to follow: Step 1: One of the biggest mistake people make is thinking they can simply talk their ex into coming back.
This usually leads to emotional breakdown if your ex is rather resistant.
You do not want your ex to see you in this state.
They will pull themselves further away because not only do they know you are doing it only to benefit yourself, you are causing a scene and making them feel uncomfortable at the same time.
Instead act against your feelings and allow them the space they need.
Be calm and willing to co-operate.
Step 2: So during this no contact period, you need to get yourself active and moving.
The more you stay in one place obsessing about the relationship, the more likely you will want to contact your ex.
You need to get out and about, start exercising, do things that make you feel good, hang out with friends etc.
Think about it like: you don't have control over what your ex wants to do, but you do have control over your own experiences.
So decide whether you want to stay home and be sad all day or go out and enjoy the time you have instead.
Either way the outcome will be the same.
Step 3: Gradually get back into contact with your ex.
Let them know you still care about them and you're thankful for the great memories you have shared.
Tell them you would like to catch up sometime as friends.
Appear upbeat and happy.
Although you might be wondering how this will bring them back.
Just think about how the relationship started in the first place.
They didn't fall in love with you because you begged them to go on a date with you.
You need to let them to slowly open up to you again.
Step 4: When things are slowly going well, you can try asking them out on a date.
Nothing serious though.
If the thought of a 'date' scares them, simply don't call it a date; just two people hanging out.
This way they can rationalize it to themselves that it is not a date.