When you met your ex boyfriend and started dating, he used to say, when he was away from you he counted the minutes until he could be with you again. At that time he thought he couldn't live without you. But, something caused him to change and he broke up with you. The fastest way to get him back is to make him miss you again.

If you are trying to get him back without much success the reason could be that you are telling him how much you miss him. That won't get your ex back or telling him you can't live without him won't work either. You will never get your ex boyfriend back until he faces the fact that he misses you and cannot live without you.

If you have been searching for information to get your ex back, you have probably run across the no contact rule and male psychology. While both of these will be a big help in getting him back, you might have to do something else. Something you did when you first started dating the man you are now trying to get back.

At the time he met you, your ex was attracted by your carefree attitude and your confidence. You always showed up dressed to the nines and made him come after you. Somewhere along the way you changed. You probably fell too deeply in love with your guy and became too eager. You wanted him to take the next step in your relationship and that made you pressure and nag him.

It might surprise you to know that your ex boyfriend is missing you right now, but he is missing the woman he fell in love with. He wants with all of his heart to have her back and all you have to do to get him back is become that woman again. That doesn't mean that you can just call him and tell him you have changed. He will have to see living proof.

This is where the no contact rule and male psychology comes into play. First you have to cut off all contact with your ex boyfriend and accept the breakup. Move on with your life and get a grip on your emotions. Take a trip and while you are gone get a new hair style and new clothes to accent your new look. When he has not heard from you for a few weeks, your ex will wonder where you are and begin to miss you.

If it has been at least a month since you had any contact with him, show him how you have changed. But before you have any contact with him, you need to have a plan in place. Be sure of what to say and what not to say. This might be your only chance to get your ex back, so don't blow it. You can reverse the breakup and make him want you again more than ever by showing him proof that you are the woman he fell in love with again.