- 1). Take Care Of Yourself -
Many times when you are in a long term relationship, you get to comfortable. You let yourself go because you are secure in your relationship. Of course that is great, but you want to keep your spouse attracted to you at the same time. So do your hair, put on some makeup, dress sexy, etc. Give him some eye candy to look at that he will lust after. - 2). Date Nights -
Set some time aside for just the two of you every week or once a month. Whatever works for the two of you best. Just keep a night where the two of you can be alone to stay connected with each other. - 3). Try New Things Together -
When the two of you have your date night, try new experiences together. This will strengthen the bond you have and it will be fun to share with each other. - 4). Compliment Them -
Give them plenty of complements no matter who is around. Doing this will help his self esteem and you relationship. To often when people are together for a longtime, they stop giving compliments. Make sure you still let them know you appropriate them. Giving compliments can range from how they look, to how they cook, etc. - 5). Give Random Acts Of PDA -
Of course you don't want to go to far, but simply holding their hand, hugging them, kissing, etc. can keep the love and sparks alive. It shows that you still long for your partner and are happy in your relationship. - 6). Give A Just Because Gift -
Once in awhile you may see something your spouse would love, surprise them with it. Wrap it and give it to them just because you feel like it. They will be surprised and it will make them feel good, what more could you ask for? - 7). Leave Them A Love Note -
Write a little love letter and place it in their briefcase, lunch box, car, etc. When they see it, they are sure to smile and feel appreciated. If you take a shower before them write I Love You in the steamy mirror. It will go away, but when they take a shower, they will see it appear in the mirror.
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