Struck out with your ladylove? Well you need not get depressed about it - too much.
If you truly feel that she's The One for you and you are sincere in making your relationship work with her this time around, then here are four simple rules on how to get your ex girlfriend back.
• Give her some space: when a girl tells you, "I need space", it usually means that she wants to have some time alone to think and you need not pester her with your relationship problems as she is still trying to sort out her own.
Saying, "We'll sort it out together" would not get you into her good graces either.
Why in the world would she ask for space in the first place if what she really wanted is to talk with you? So just let her be but do not get mad at her about this either.
This is not her way of telling you to "get lost", more of, just give her space to breathe and think.
• Be nice: while having your "space", make your girl feel that you do care for her by simply sending her a text message every now and then.
Just write something along the lines of "Hope you're okay" or "How's your day?" as such messages won't seem like you are trying too hard to stay in contact nor are you pressuring her to get back with you.
The last thing a person who is in doubt needs is to feel like her partner's a controlling freak who can't leave her alone even for just five minutes.
• Do not freak out if she starts dating: if, unfortunately, your girlfriend's need for space turned to something like, "let's try to see other people", don't freak out yet show her some reluctance on your part.
However, if she is serious about it then let her give it a shot but remind her that you will always be there for her.
Of course, don't forget to catch with her from time to time, don't insult whoever she's dating nor be rude either.
This will show your ex girlfriend that you are a mature person who can handle a serious relationship and she might as well reconsider and get back with you again.
• Be sincere: once you have been able to get your ex girlfriend back - mostly through your sweet promises, kind gestures, and the significant improvement in how you handle your relationship, don't blow it this time by falling back to your old ways.
Show her your sincerity by being consistent and do not slack off even if everything seems fine.
If you promised your girl that you will be more understanding, patient or whatever, do mean it.
If you do love her as much as you say you do, then that would be enough reason for you to do the things that will get her to stay.
Females can be fickle-minded and highly emotional especially over relationships but that does not mean that men are not capable of such things either.
If you are looking for ways to get your ex girlfriend back, these four simple tips will surely be a piece of cake to you, as long as you are sincere in making your relationship work this time around.