If you have found your way to this page, you must have done so after desperately searching for a way to patch things up with your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend.
I think that it is fair to say that we have all been at that stage at some point in time.
I sure have been so I know exactly how you are feeling.
It is the worst feeling in the world to have the person with whom you have shared so many good times suddenly say something like "I don't think that we should see each other anymore" or "I think that it is time for us to go our separate ways".
Everything inside of you screams no and you try in a desperate bid to hold on to the good times that you once had with this person even though you know that the relationship had its rough patches.
Once the break-up happens, then you find yourself asking "how can I get him/her back?" or "how can I fix this?".
How do you mend a relationship? Where do you begin to mend and fix? That is exactly what I am going to help you to do.
Okay, you know that if your significant other broke up with you, then there must have been a problem to begin with or maybe even a few problems.
The best thing to do then is to find the root of the problem.
This may seem obvious but many people who overlook this step after the break-up find themselves in the same position they were in before when they finally manage to get back together with their partners.
A good way to do this is to start by asking yourself a few questions once the initial shock and hurt has worn off.
You may start by asking: -When did the relationship start to go downhill? -When did I start to notice that things were not right? -Did my behavior have anything to do with the break-up and if so what was the problem? -Did my ex ever say anything in particular about my behavior or the relationship? -If I were to point out three things that I could say caused the break-up, what would they be? -If I were to get back together with my ex, how could the relationship be better? Start with these questions.
You'll find that as you delve deeper into the inner workings and dynamics of the relationship, a pattern should start emerging and you should be able to see where both you and your ex went wrong.
This is one of your first steps to getting back together with your ex! Once you have finished this process then you are ready to implement a proper system comprising introspection and loads of fun to get your ex to, not only want you back, but completely addicted to you! Click on the link below to find out how to do that!