You can get back your love after having just lost the love of your life in a break up, and we will give you 3 easy steps how to get started.
The thing is, you may not even realize what went wrong, it all seemed to happen so fast.
Do not be discouraged.
It may have been a knee jerk reaction due to being hurt, angry or just even scared.
Sometimes important decisions should be slept on and thought over for a day or two but that does not always happen.
And what decision is more important than who you are potentially going to spend the rest of your life with? There are some easy to follow tips in how to get back your love.
The tips are easy to follow buy may not be easy to do; but your chances of success at getting back your love increase dramatically if you follow them.
Tip #1 is to not suffocate your ex.
Maybe he or she just needed a little space, the last thing you want to do is crowd them at this point.
You certainly do not want to be mad at them for breaking up or beg them to come back.
Perhaps a little time alone and they will start to miss you.
During this time you want to make sure you are on top of your game in case you do cross paths or their friends see you.
Look sharp, look happy and appear confident.
You do not want to look dejected or demoralized, even if you are.
Tip #2 is do not spend every waking moment thinking about your ex.
Think about you.
Make sure that you want him or her back; maybe they did you a favor by breaking up.
At least take stock of your situation, treat yourself to doing something they never wanted to do with you and keep your spirits up.
Evaluate what you are looking for in a mate and make sure that he or she is still what you are looking for.
Appearing happy, confident and sharp in appearance may even have someone new giving you notice.
That can work for you if your ex notices the new person or if the new person appeals to you.
Tip #3 is to talk to your ex at some point.
Most people at least need closure on a relationship and maybe you have things to return to one another.
Make the first meeting casual and avoid any argument or confrontation.
This is a good time to get an idea of whether you really miss each other or not and whether to continue thinking about getting your love back or searching for new love.
Be open and honest with your ex about the relationship, what it was and what it could be if you two tried again.
The process is not to determine who was right or wrong about the break up, this is about you and what is best for you.