Are you ready to get the commitment you deserve? Have you been in a relationship for awhile and are waiting on him to make a commitment? Do you want to have things that you can actually do, that work, and that won't scare him off? Now is the time to start working your relationship toward a commitment.
You need to know that it is likely to take some time.
You can't just have it happen over night.
However, if you are willing to work at it these things actually work and will get the commitment you deserve.
Build yourself up.
The first thing you need to do is to work on you.
That may seem weird when you are wanting something from him.
But it is true.
It goes way beyond looks and into the heart of who you are and how you behave.
You need to make sure you exude confidence.
If you lack it then you need to build it.
You need to make sure you are a positive person.
If this doesn't come naturally you need to develop it.
You need to make sure that you are the best you can be starting with the inside and working your way out.
Give him reason to want to commit.
You need to give him a reason to want to commit to him.
It is easy to just want him to do it, but that won't be enough.
You need to make sure that you start by giving him a lot of fun.
Have fun every time you are together.
You also need to make sure that you are apart more times then you are together.
This will make sure that he doesn't get too used to you.
Stay busy.
When you continue to have a life and continue to stay busy you make it so that committing to you will get him more of you.
If you have fun with him when you are together it makes it so that he has a reason to want to commit to you and spend more time with you.
Maintain a little mystery.
If you keep a little bit of mystery about you then there will also be something that he has to find out about you.
This means you should keep sex off for a little.
Be honest when he asks a question, but don't tell him everything and don't volunteer too much.
To get the commitment you deserve you need to start with you.
You need to build yourself up.
Then give him a reason to commit to you.
This is about balance.
Balance your time with him and apart to make it so that he wants to commit for more of you.
Finally keep a little mystery about you.
These are things you can actually do that really work.
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