Is your ex behaving in a way that makes you wonder if he or she still wants to get back with you? Do they want to spend time with you, maybe more than they did before you broke up? Are they flirting with you? Before you get your hopes up thinking that you relationship can be restored, you want to make sure you can answer the question that's going through your mind...
Does my ex really want to get back with me? There are certain signs you can look for that will tell you if your ex is interested in getting back together with you.
But before you look for those signs, there is one thing you don't want to do.
Don't Do This Don't be too eager to resume your relationship until you know for sure your ex wants you back, especially if you really want to get back together with them.
Why? Because you need to determine if your ex is genuinely sincere about wanting to get back together.
Your desire to get back together makes you more susceptible to hurtful behavior.
For example, sometimes an ex will only act like they want to get back together with you.
They sense that you still care for them and will play on your emotions just to get attention.
Then as soon as someone new shows up, they dump you.
Sometimes an ex will lead you into believing they want you back as revenge in order to hurt you.
Instead Do This Carefully assess the situation as objectively as possible.
Playing hard to get, but not too hard, is the best position to be in to determine if your ex is serious about getting back with you.
Stay in control and don't let your guard down.
In addition, if your ex really wants you back, they will probably respond better if he or she senses you're not too eager to get back into the relationship.
If Your Ex Really Does Want to Get Back With You If your ex really wants to get back together with you, they're probably wondering if you want to get back together with them.
Whenever a breakup occurs, it's natural for both partners to miss the other, especially if the relationship has been going on for one or more years.
You've had lots of time to create memories and develop emotions...
both positive and negative.
So it's wonderful if you want to get back together too, but don't jump in full force.
You may end up scaring your ex away if they sense you're moving too fast and you remind them of the negative memories and emotions.
Always move the relationship forward in moderation.